All this we have to learn how to forgive, not because we are increasingly being "very good" and "charitable," but for the reason that what we are seeing is not true. We have now distorted the entire world by our twisted defenses, and are hence looking at what's not there. https://andytixlz.wikiexcerpt.com/4231072/the_definitive_guide_to_a_course_in_miracles_lesson_1